Making friends in a new country is hard enough without the language barrier. In Slovakia, where people might seem reserved at first, breaking the ice takes a bit of strategy. Here’s how to do it without coming off as awkward or overbearing.
1. Start with the basics: Learn Slovak greetings and small talk
Slovaks appreciate when foreigners try to speak their language, even if it’s just a simple Dobrý deň (Good day) or Ako sa máš? (How are you?). If you’re still learning, check out our guide on Slovak diminutives to sound more natural.
2. Find common ground: Hobbies and interests
Slovaks bond over shared activities. Whether it’s hiking, football, or folk music, joining a local club or event is a great way to meet people. Try:
- Hiking groups (Slovakia’s mountains are stunning)
- Language exchange meetups
- Traditional festivals like Východná Folklore Festival
3. Master the art of the Slovak pub
Pubs (krčma) are social hubs. Order a Kofola or a Zlatý Bažant and strike up a conversation about football or local politics - just avoid controversial topics at first.
Krčma
/ˈkr̩tʃma/“Pub”
4. Be patient with Slovak reserve
Slovaks aren’t as immediately open as Americans or Spaniards. They might seem distant at first, but once you’re in, you’re in for life. Don’t mistake their initial reserve for disinterest.
5. Use humour (carefully)
Slovaks have a dry, sarcastic sense of humour. Self-deprecating jokes about your Slovak skills (“Hovorím po slovensky ako malé dieťa” – “I speak Slovak like a small child”) can break the ice. Just avoid mocking their culture or language.
6. Bring something to the table
Slovaks value reciprocity. If someone invites you for dinner, bring a bottle of wine or a small gift. Even better, cook a dish from your home country - it’s a great conversation starter.
7. Learn the unspoken rules
- Don’t be overly loud in public (Slovaks value quiet)
- Always take off your shoes when entering someone’s home
- Punctuality matters - being late is rude
